20111219 Americanized..

Lord..
How am i supposed to be calmed at what is happening to her? being sexually harassed at work by customers and coworkers and she does absolutely nothing and thinking its normal and its just an american style of greeting/being friendly? i truly am disappointed.. disappointed that she doesn't even know how to protect herself and doesn't even feel the need to do so.. best of all.. she thinks its absolutely normal...

I truly can't control myself but laugh when she thinks i really don't understand and just being conservative..
1) i've grown up in an American society most of my life
2) for over 10years 99% of my friends are all american and non-asian
3) 98% of all my high school friends were attractive females so i know exactly how to act around them
4) i am a man who used to get different girls with different ways
5) i have good friends all over the world in different countries and cultures which i know different cultural greetings
6) i study a lot of manners/greetings/communication skills just because i've always been into it
7) i work in one of the biggest and top company in the world where they teach proper/real corporation standards and legal issues such as Sexual Harassment yearly so i know how 'real business person' or 'high class'/'educated' people should act like


so thinking i don't know/understand how people should act around people or i've just never seen the world/big scene just make me laugh..
..... this is definitely affecting me, affecting the relationship.. affecting my trust towards her..
Lord.. please help me.. i really don't know what to do since i don't want to force her to change.. so please change her for me Lord.. i don't want to offend her, her job, her coworkers, her customers.. but this is really changing my views on all of them... isn't D******** supposed to be a high class restaurant with 'proper' customers?


Ask yourself this and truthfully think about it... "if you truly understands and agree with what i say/think, why would you ask me what i want you to do?" since you would already know what you should do..
you say that you love me and will do all that i want you to do only means you don't understand/nor agree with it and just doing what i tell you to do which is a type of controlling....